It was so wonderful to be with family over the holidays. I caught myself several times beginning to give “helpful advice” and quickly zipped my lips. Of course the lip zipper didn’t work a few times, but I was better this year than in times past. This year I just enjoyed being with the people I love. I gave up on being perfect and let everyone help in their own ways. The dishes were done by other people and they were just as clean as though I had done them myself. Boy, was I dumb in years past. People are so much more important than things. I am blessed.